The ONE

Since the title of my blog is about love, life and longing, I thought it would be nice to start to crack in a few thoughts about love thought it is safe to say, nothing can be resolved about love once you have read this blog.

Because love is such a sophiscated matter, knowing no one's opinion would ever satisfied other, it would foolish of me to talk about the definition of love because it cannot be applied to anyone but myslef. So after careful consideration, I thought it would be easier for me to talk about conquest of finding love rather trying to convince you about love. Who am I too tell you right?

So when it come to love what do people look for in his or her mate?

To answer this question, it is critically to look at those around you, after all we often surround around ourselves of people that make up little components of our complex life. For me, I am grateful to be surrounded by the greatest female. Great not neccessary in monitary or accomplishment along, but in smart, intelligent, loyal, clever, attractiveness and the best of them all, great heart. Striking isn't it, to be surrounded of all these so call perfect women yet, how do you determine which one is right one for you?

For everyone that think that may have the answer, don't fool yourself. The fact of the matter is it really doesn't matter in this context because your answer would be just as jusifiable as mine, so then how do you pick that right one that you can call, THE ONE. You can't because the ONE can only exist only in a single point in time, meaning that moment when you have decided that your heart and mind are in sync and THE ONE enscapulates that very moment that you felt the stars were aline in perfect formation for you and her/him. But that that mean THE ONE would be the THE ONE for the rest of your life. So how do you come to this conclusion that that person is THE ONE FOR YOU FOR EVER.

As I mentioned early, all real women and real men have the similar quailities. LOYAL, UNDERSTANDING, LOVING, CARING, RESPONSIBLE, TRUSTWORTHY, you know what I mean, so if all real women and men have these communal charateristics, what then makes person stand out that you would be so convinced to call the ONE FORVER.

Hmm..think about it, all real women and men look for these characteristics, it is a given, but then, what makes a woman and man decide to spend the rest of his and her life together. Maybe, if you are thinking something like an epitome, you are completely fooling yourself. No, it is not any extrordinary discoveries nor is it someone that can't be explainible, but it is so simple that you would think I won't make any sense.

The real question is , what makes this person so special? Is it because her/she can make you laugh in the darkest hours? Or is because he/she so passion about one thing that make him/her so special in your eye? Or is because he/she simply would be with you regardless of what you will become or not become? Or maybe you and him/her share something in this world that so sacred, so unique that it can re-live with you over and over again? Or for me, it simple being able to share the passion for my beloved country and know that person can see that. Maybe, all these things about caring, responsiblity, understanding is part of love, but it not what love is about. But love exist in burst, yes in BURST, however extending over a long long period of time, rejunivate your life as each BURST OF LOVE is felt. For exampke, when you have those moment when the world is moving so fast, so twisted, so light speed, then you stop and pause and think about that one person. For that very single moment of lonilness, emptiness and silence and everything is a blurred, you feel complete in all phases of a human being can exist. You smile, pleaseantly content, perhaps with a grin of completion about love and that person you love. These are the moments of BURST that I mean. So is it neccessarily true that love must be a constant stream of "I LOVE YOU" or a huge "ROCK", in my opinion NO. However, it must be of loyalty and your own conviction of "COMPLETION".

I guess the bottom line is, if you can expereince this moment at any time of your life or any phase of your life and any where in this world, maybe that is THE ONE for you.

It is simple, true and defeats all the complications of life, but getting there... getting to that...well, that is another story.